This survey was created a few years ago by Alex and Brett Harris, the authors of "Do Hard Things". It includes a petition signed my hundreds of guys, and a huge poll with many questions about what is and isn't modest according to guys. It's REALLY helpful and insightful, and very practical. I don't think any of them bought the "dress like a nun" idea. You can still be up to date, feminine and modest! So here is the link, I hope you enjoy!